EDITORIALS

Docking your boat Cover Image

Let’s start with the fact that she weighs about 22,000+ lbs., and instead of being on dry land with wheels in firm contact with asphalt, it is more like driving a car on glare ice, only harder.I have been heard to say that there are only two difficult times when you are sailing – leaving t...


Sep 14, 2023

By Matt Bud, The FENG

Giving and taking advice

Human Interactions

Giving and taking advice Cover Image

It is well understood that men don’t like unsolicited advice. It is for this reason we tend not to ask for directions at the gas station. It is a macho thing driving around for hours, lost beyond hope, and yet not stopping for help. (Thank goodness for GPS!)One of our many fine traditions ...


Sep 13, 2023

By Matt Bud, The FENG

Making a pest of yourself

Job Leads & Job Boards Recruiters

Making a pest of yourself Cover Image

As I am sure all of you know, one of your responsibilities as a member is, to the best of your ability, to only respond to job postings when you are reasonably qualified.The greatest majority of job postings in our newsletter come your way through the good offices of your fellow members. I...


Sep 12, 2023

By Matt Bud, The FENG

The proper placement of obstacles

Being Out of Work

The proper placement of obstacles Cover Image

As we used to go around the table at our meeting here in Connecticut (pre-Covid-19), I was always surprised by the time devoted in 90 second announcements to where folks wouldn’t move and what kinds of jobs they wouldn’t take.I have always been of the philosophy that I will go anywhere to ...


Sep 11, 2023

By Matt Bud, The FENG

Doing the “friend thing”

Human Interactions

Doing the “friend thing” Cover Image

Over the past few months I have gotten several notes from members commenting on how they responded to a posting in our newsletter even though they hadn’t seen it.How did this miracle occur you might ask? One of their fellow members took the time to send it to them to ensure that they saw i...


Sep 10, 2023

By Matt Bud, The FENG

The truth (as retold) Cover Image

I know that many of our members are faced with the unpleasant truth that they have been out of work for a significant period of time. Having been out of work myself for almost two years, I know that this unpleasant question of “Why have you been out so long?” gets asked. Like anything else...


Sep 07, 2023

By Matt Bud, The FENG

The fall networking season begins!

Networking

The fall networking season begins! Cover Image

One of the trends I have noticed in the past few years is that the people you would like to contact disappear earlier and stay away longer around holidays.I sent out a mailing this morning to our many friends in the search community and was floored by how many “out of office” notes I got i...


Sep 06, 2023

By Matt Bud, The FENG

Have you seen my glasses?

Correspondence

Have you seen my glasses? Cover Image

I don’t know about you, but I am always misplacing things. I work pretty hard at keeping my papers organized, but like anything else, papers can get lost. When they do, it makes me absolutely crazy. Even when I have another copy on my computer, I am obsessed to find the copy that is on my ...


Sep 05, 2023

By Matt Bud, The FENG

Every gathering is a networking event

Human Interactions Networking

Every gathering is a networking event Cover Image

I hope that all of you have plans for the Labor Day weekend. Please know that every gathering is a networking event.Although I don’t recommend bringing resumes to the various barbeques you may be attending, do bring business cards and that winning smile of yours.People know people. And, if...


Aug 30, 2023

By Matt Bud, The FENG

You’re not from around here

Job Leads & Job Boards

You’re not from around here Cover Image

The number of qualified candidates in major metropolitan areas is always strong. The problem faced by our members in “one horse towns” is dealing with the issue of relocation when they apply for opportunities.Most of the folks I talk to who are not from major metropolitan areas feel they a...


Aug 29, 2023

By Matt Bud, The FENG

Bestowing the gift of friendship

Networking

Bestowing the gift of friendship Cover Image

As all of you are out and about networking, I hope you are aware that one of your most important member responsibilities is to invite your new and old friends who are Senior Financial Officers to join The FENG.While it is certainly true that The FENG dominates our space. And, it may even b...


Aug 28, 2023

By Matt Bud, The FENG

Reasons for inaction

Being Out of Work

Reasons for inaction Cover Image

There are, unfortunately, all kinds of events and holidays during the calendar year that can cause us to delay addressing our job search, and I thought I would use the “idea” of these dates as a prime example of the inaction it can cause in all of us, myself included.I think the fear that ...


Aug 27, 2023

By Matt Bud, The FENG

A clear piece of communication

Resume Writing

A clear piece of communication Cover Image

It isn’t often that I get a great resume, but I got one recently.I guess I wasn’t surprised given who sent it to me. Although it was three pages, it was still crisp and concise. Perhaps it could have been shaved down to two pages, but it really didn’t bother me that it was a little longer ...


Aug 24, 2023

By Matt Bud, The FENG

Junk mail Cover Image

I don’t know what you consider to be junk mail. I view anything I don’t want to get in the mail (including bills) to be unwanted. (Can’t they send my bills to YOU for payment? Okay, you probably wouldn’t pay them and then my credit would be ruined. I guess I’ll have to come up with another...


Aug 23, 2023

By Matt Bud, The FENG

Reading the tea leaves

Job Leads & Job Boards

Reading the tea leaves Cover Image

I don’t know about you, but I find it hard not to have my eyes glass over while reading job descriptions. It seems to me that they often put the most important information last, buried somewhere or disguised.I am, of course, referring to the EXACT city location of the job in question. Hey,...


Aug 22, 2023

By Matt Bud, The FENG

Retained versus contingency

Recruiters

Retained versus contingency Cover Image

There is a great deal of fuss made out in “the world” about the difference between retained and contingency recruiters. If you want a full discussion about their differences and differing motivations, a very good source is “Rites of Passage” by John Lucht.All recruiters handle jobs in whic...


Aug 21, 2023

By Matt Bud, The FENG

Life is a journey Cover Image

I have often noted to my friends who aren’t into boating that the difference between a power boater and a sail boater is that power boaters usually use their boats to go somewhere, whereas sail boaters are already there once they step onto their boat.In our goal driven, management by objec...


Aug 20, 2023

By Matt Bud, The FENG

Spilling your guts

Interviewing

Spilling your guts Cover Image

With all of the flap these days about integrity, I am concerned that members of The FENG, being honest financial types, will again fall into their natural propensity to tell too much about things that are no one’s business.I hope that I can trust you to blather on about all of your technic...


Aug 17, 2023

By Matt Bud, The FENG

Read any good books? Cover Image

One of the little recognized facts about interviewing is that the most important part of what you are trying to accomplish in an interview is to make a personal connection with the interviewer.With all of the executive talent floating around these days, starting with the 34,000+ members of...


Aug 16, 2023

By Matt Bud, The FENG

To a worm in horseradish Cover Image

My Grandmother emigrated to the United States around 1914. She grew up near Kiev in what is now the Ukraine (but we were always told was Russia). A Yiddish proverb she used frequently was: To a worm in horseradish, the whole world is horseradish. (My Grandmother had a thick Russian accent,...


Aug 15, 2023

By Matt Bud, The FENG

Give yourself a break

Being Out of Work

Give yourself a break Cover Image

Back in 1991-1992 I was unemployed. Yes, two full years.Honestly, cash was starting to get a little tight. But more importantly, although I had a lot of free time, it was hard to enjoy it.Money, and the prospect of more, tends to focus the “let’s have some fun” part of our brains, whereas ...


Aug 14, 2023

By Matt Bud, The FENG